In this week's Family Affair, part of Ha'Aretz' Friday Magazine, a portrait of a fascinating person who appears to have had a more than interesting life: Akiva Strostineitsky of kibbutz Dalia ( not very far away from where I live ). About the State of Israel he says, and I have no reason to argue with him or to doubt the truthfulness of his words: "It's not what we meant it to be."